I can tell you how you and your boyfriend can make sure, for next time, that his penis ends up in the place you want it.Įither one or both of you can guide his penis with your hands to your vaginal opening and help it enter. Plus, all the muscles of the pelvic area are connected in some way, so any pressure on the vaginal muscles can translate into pressure on the anal and rectal muscles, and vice versa. The tissue between the vagina and anus - internally and externally - isn't very thick at all, and they're almost stacked on top of one another inside your body, so pressure or sensation in one opening can often be felt in the other. If you felt pressure in or around your anus, that doesn't necessarily mean that your boyfriend's penis entered there. Given their proximity to each other, either or both are possibilities. No matter which opening you wanted your boyfriend's penis to enter, there really is no way for me, or anyone, to tell you whether it ended up in your vagina or your anus unless they were watching you at the time. At the end of this, I'll give you some reading material that will, I think, give you more to think about and more to try in your quest for satisfying partnered sex. There are other reasons besides having genitals not fit together in a way that is comfy for your body for intercourse to be uncomfortable, painful, or not pleasurable. I wanted to clarify this because some people enjoy anal intercourse, and for those people, the penis ending up in the anus isn't the wrong spot at all. From your question, it sounds like you want your boyfriend's penis to end up in your vagina, for vaginal intercourse. The vaginal opening is surrounded by, and, for some people, hidden by the inner and outer labia, while the anal opening is a sphincter, a ring of muscle, leading into the anus, which in turn leads to the rectum. The vagina and anus are adjacent to one another, separated by a narrow band of tissue and muscle called the perineum. Next comes the vagina, then, finally, the anus.
This opening is very, very tiny, so it likely isn't the opening you're talking about. Starting at the front of the body, we first have the urethral opening, where one urinates from. So, without further ado: An Anatomy LessonĪ person with a vulva actually has three "holes" (or what I prefer to call openings) per their genitals: the urethra, the vagina, and the anus. Lots of people don't know what's going on with their genital anatomy, or with other parts of their body, either. So, there's no judgment from me on these questions, nor would I say there should be from anyone else. Sometimes that's even the case for people in their 30s, 40s and beyond. Most of us, and I count myself in this group, don't get many opportunities to learn about our bodies, or much about sex, and find ourselves either figuring things out as we go along or searching for information to help us. I don't think these questions are silly or foolish.
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